When I Grow Up

My four year old grandson Hayes is extraordinarily loving and empathetic. His truly special relationships with all four of his grandparents and the mutual love and joy we share with him creates warm moments worthy of reflection.

Earlier this week, his grandmother “Memes” (my wife) who absolutely adores Hayes as we all do, watched Hayes at his home while his mom went on some well deserved personal errands.

There came a point as they were playing when Hayes started asking questions about where he came from, where did his mom come from, how did our family grow together, etc. Out of the blue, Hayes said, “When I grow up, I am getting married and having kids to have fun with.” Gut punch time.

Upon hearing that heart of hearts reflection from such a loving child with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy, I wept, then prayed. My gut continued to hurt until bedtime. I love that young boy so much.

He is so empathetic and discerning at such a young age. His view of the future, indeed, is my most profound dream… may it become so.

Kindly,

Papa in Tennessee